Every parent wants to be the best parent of the world. There is a constant pressure from everywhere around the world to be the best parent. Everybody is competing with one another to become the best parent. More harm has caused by the era of the era of smart phones, social media and artificial intelligence that we have become completely dependent on technology and social media for everything, it starts with the alarm clock in the morning and ends with putting our phones in flight mode at night. In between we have become completely dependent on technology. We constantly seeking validation from others about how we are, if someone son’s has topped the class, there will be flood of congratulation messages on social media and the other parent would suffer from lower self-esteem as his kid couldn’t perform that well. These days it is a very common scenario that would be parents take help of various books on parenting, or how to raise a child, how to become good parents and etc without understanding one simple thing every child is different and every child needs different sort of attention and care.
This is a very specialized NLP training course introduces for the parents that’s deals with all kinds of dilemma, frustration and tiredness of the parents in handling their kids. The course starts with a beautiful message that says, parents do not come with any prior experience of becoming parent before the child is born, hence every parent is a fresher in the skill set category of a resume of parenting. A parent is as old as their kids; it starts from day 0 till death. Raising a child is a full time job and no excel sheet, word, power point presentation can do this job on behalf of you.
With these words the entire burden of the shoulder of the parents are being taken care off. Then slowly through NLP, the parents as well as the kids are tied in one common bond of love. The unconditional love between parent and their child is the key word of the good parenting.
Once the love has been established between them, then different tasks to unlearn the traditional concept of parenting are given to parents, and then they are being introduced to re programming of their mind, specially their behavior towards their kids. Similarly the kids are also started giving training to learn to be fearless, courageous, to stand up on their own feet.
It has been observed often when both the parents are working, they start feeling guilty and try to compensate them with expensive gifts which is so damaging. This is certainly how not to raise a child under any given circumstances. So many other things can be tried instead of showering gifts to them that will eventually make them greedy, they will never be able to value things or relationships and it will damage the whole childhood. First of all you as a parent don’t have to feel guilty for working. It’s your choice, and it’s important for your child’s future, so instead of becoming guilty, enjoy the job and child both. Hence these aspects of parents’ behavior are being taken care in good parenting course.